If you’ve never used a C-Ring, also known as a cock ring, or don’t even know what, or why, cock rings are used for, then buckle up because you’re going to learn everything you’ve ever wanted to know about cock rings, but were afraid to ask!
What Is A Cock Ring?
Unlike some sex toys that have very interesting names tied to them, a cock ring is exactly what it sounds like; A ring that wraps around a penis in order to squeeze the shaft, or the balls, or both the shaft and the penis at the same time. Now the next question that might be swirling around in your head is “why the hell would anyone want this”.
What Exactly Does A Cock Ring Do?
Simply put, cock rings makes sex possible for a number of reasons, each one differs from the other!
Reason #1 Why Men Use Cock Rings: Erectile Dysfunction Treatment
Cock rings can help men who suffer from ED (erectile dysfunction) maintain a boner once again. One function of a cock ring is the slowing of the blood flow back from the erect penis, allowing it to stay hard longer….a partial boner is needed though, and just placing a cock ring on a limp penis is not going to transform it into a solid erection. Some men use penis pumps to help build their erection before placing a cock ring in it.
Reason #2 Why Men Use Cock Rings: Harder Erections
Even if you don’t suffer from ED (erectile dysfunction), cock rings can give you a harder, thicker, and BIGGER boner that can last for an extremely long time.
Reason #3 Why Men Use Cock Rings: Intense Sensations
Wearing a cock ring makes every sensation much more intense, which can make masturbation, oral sex, and intercourse more pleasurable.
Reason #4 Why Men Use Cock Rings: Give Your Girl Some Stimulation
A cock ring can pleasure the clit just as much as if can be pleasurable for the penis. Vibrating cock rings are great for clitoral stimulation!
Reason #5 Why Men Use Cock Rings: Hand Jobs & BJs Just Got Better
Using cock rings while getting/giving a handy or blowy makes the experience better than ever before.
I suggest giving/getting a handy with a vibrating cock ring, while mixing it up with a flexible cock ring for the blow job.
Reason #6 Why Men Use Cock Rings: Something for the Booty
If you’re into “anal play”, then use a cock ring to take it to a whole other level of fun and pleasure. Be sure to use lots of lube if you’ll be engaging in any kind of anal play while wearing a cock ring.
How to Use a Cock Ring
Now that you know “why” cock rings are used, if you’re intrigued and wondering how to actually use a cock ring, here are a few tips to help you out.
1 – Begin with a Stretchy Cock Ring!
Flexible cock rings are made of stretchy materials, like silicone, and are easy to remove, making them great for beginners. Once you become more advanced with the ways of the cock ring then you can start playing around with the metal ones, but let’s master the flexible cock rings first to avoid any complications.
2 – Don’t Put A Ring On A Boner!
Only place a cock ring on a flaccid or semi-erect penis because placing a cock ring over the penis head and sliding it down the shaft will typically be easier if the wiener is flaccid or semi-erect.
3 – Lube That Cock!
Spread a few drops of lube around the inner part of the penis before slipping on a cock ring. This will allow the cock ring to slide down a penis more easily. Also use lube when you’re ready to remove the cock ring to ensure any easy slip-off.
4 – Remove Cock Rings After 20 Minutes!
Never leave a cock ring on for longer than 20 minutes because blood flow restriction is usually safe in short bursts, and 20 minutes seems to be the universal recommendation.
5 – Condoms & Cock Rings
If you’re wearing a condom with a penis ring, put the ring on first, then place the condom on second once the penis is fully erect.
A Week’s Worth of Cock Rings
Just as there are 7 days in a week, there are basically 7 different types of cock rings, each one providing something a little different, for you to choose from: Vibrating cock rings, Basic cock rings, Adjustable cock rings, Double cock rings, Anal cock rings, Metal cock rings, and Stimulating cock rings!
Basic Cock Rings
Basic cock rings are what you think about when you imagine what a cock ring is. They’re simplistic in nature, just having one ring which grips onto the shaft of the penis. The only thing you can really change with this kind of cock ring is where it sits on your penis.
Cock Rings That Vibrate
The main function of a vibrating cock ring is to stimulate both the penis and the woman’s clitoris at the same time. Some vibrating cock rings are disposable, and others come with a rechargeable battery, but regardless of anything, vibrating cock rings are the best cock rings to use if the goal is to provide intense pleasure for both the man and the woman at the same time.
Cock Rings Made Out of Steel
The most durable cock rings are the ones that are made out of steel, steel cock rings and are completely inflexible, and can only be placed on the penis when it’s still limp, or flaccid, so if you try placing this on an erect penis you’ll find out soon enough that it’s an impossible challenge. Because of this, you’ll need to know what size your penis is so you make sure to get the correct size steel cock ring; if you get too small of a steel cock ring then you could be in for a very painful experience, so make sure you get the right fir for the shaft you’re working with to ensure a fun and sexy experience.
Cock Rings That Are Flexible
Flexible cock rings have a lot more give to them that steel cock rings do. The majority of flexible cock rings are made of a jelly type of material, while others are molded from a soft silicone material. Flexible cock rings are the simplest of cock rings, where you just put on your penis, soft or erect, and then can start using.
Cock Rings That Are Not PETA Approved
Just like designer jackets, some cock rings are made out of leather! Leather cock rings are adjustable which means that they have a little more give than a steel cock ring, but not as much as a flexible cock ring. This is great if some days you need a little more help than other days, so you can go for a slightly tighter setting. Leather cock rings require a little more care than any other style of cock ring because leather can absorb sweat, and all of those other bodily fluids released during sexual activities, so it’s very important that these are cleaned after being used.
Solid Cock Rings
Because they have very little give when you wear them, solid cock rings are very similar to steel cock rings; they work just as similarly, and can be made of hard plastics, hard rubbers, metal, or even glass. Solid cock rings will be more likely to break than types of cock rings, so these must be cleaned and stored correctly if you want them to have a long lifespan.
Lassos Aren’t Exactly Cock Rings, But Kinda Are
If you’ve never used a cock ring then you may want to start with a lasso cock ring because these are similar to cock rings, but much more adjustable which allows you to experiment to find the tightness you prefer.
And on the 8th Day Stays-Hard Created the Orgasm Ring
Okay, I know I said that their are 7 types of cock rings, but their is actually an 8th type of cock ring, and it’s actually my favorite type because it ensures mutual orgasms for both the man wearing it and the woman he’s having sex with!
Yes, this 8th type is called an Orgasm Ring, and has been designed and manufactured by the same people behind the Stays-Hard device that ensures erections to the men that wear it, and now their Orgasm Ring ensures orgasms for everyone participating!
Stays-Hard Orgasm Ring, which can be worn over a Stays-Hard or Erect Penis device, is made from body safe silicone and can stretch to fit over even the biggest set of balls any man may have! It is pretty big, but that’s what makes this cock ring the mightiest of them all when it comes to sexual satisfaction!
Over 70% of Vulva Owners Can’t Be Wrong
Over 70% of Vulva owners do not Orgasm with just a hard penis going in and out of them, women need Clitoral Stimulation in order to achieve an orgasm, and Stays-Hard Orgasm Ring is allowing every vulva owner to now enjoy AMAZING orgasms while having intercourse!
Vulva Owner Approved
As an owner of a vulva myself, I wanted to see if the Stays-Hard Orgasm Ring actually did what they claimed it could do, ensure mutual orgasms for everyone involved, so I took it for a test drive, and let me tell you, this cock ring provided the BEST sexual satisfaction that any cock ring, or any sex toy for that matter, has ever provided for me in my sexual lifetime!
The Stays-Hard Orgasm Ring allowed me to experience an orgasm even before the guy wearing it ejaculated, and thanks to the Orgasm Ringing keeping his dick hard, he was able to make me cum 2 more times before we stopped! Seriously, no cock ring has ever made me achieve an orgasm ever.
As a woman, my favorite thing about this Orgasm Ring is that it actually feels as if a woman is licking my clit while a man is fucking me at the same time…so it’s basically like having a threesome except I’m getting 100% of the cock without having to share!
Listen, if you have a pussy, then make sure your man starts fucking you with a Stays-Hard Orgasm Ring because it’ll make bad sex good, good sex great, and great sex unbelievable!
Please make sure to use a lot of lube with it!
Also, if you’re a female that enjoys anal sex as much as I do then you will LOVE using the Orgasm Ring while having anal; the orgasm ring will stimulate your clit at the exact same time your man is balls deep in your booty…you will enjoy both a G-spot and A-spot orgasms simultaneously!
Stays-Hard Orgasm Ring Saftey Tips
Cock rings are safe, fun, and add to the overall sexual experience, but make sure to follow the safety advice below so that all of your Orgasm Ring experiences are always pleasurable:
1 – Don’t wear the Orgasm Ring for more than 20 minutes at a time.
2 – Use a LITTLE bit of lube to make the Orgasm Ring easier to get on and off, and be sure to use LOTS of lube if you’ll be engaging in any kind of anal play.
3 – Don’t wear the Orgasm Ring if you have a bleeding disorder or a blood condition.
4 – Make sure you use the right size Orgasm Ring to ensure that you’re not cutting off the circulation of blood to your penis.
5 – Make sure that you’re not allergic to any types of materials that the Orgasm Ring is made of.
6 – Treat the Orgasm Ring like forks, tea cups, and plates, and wash it after each and every use.
Now that you know EVERYTHING there is to know about cock rings it’s time for you to Visit Stays-Hard today and get yourself their Orgasm Ring!
Okay, before my reads the title of this article and freaks out, I want her to know that no I’m not going to start stripping at a strip club, but I am going to be ordering myself a stripper pole from a company by the name of X-POLE because I’m going to start a stripper pole fitness regiment ASAP!
COVID-19 Has Shut Down My Gym & I Can’t Wait Until My Gym Opens Back Up..
This coronavirus quarantine is causing serious harm to my body life because the gym in my condo is going to stay closed until the quarantine is over, and I just can’t wait any longer for gyms to open up because I’m falling more and more out of shape as each COVID-19 quarantine day passes by!
I noticed that a couple of my girlfriends, who actually are strippers, have stayed in excellent shape the past 9 months because they have a stripper pole set up in their apartment that they use every day to practice, as well as perfect, their exotic dancer skills in order to not miss a beat as soon as strip clubs open back up in California, and I noticed that their bodies still look amazing even without exercising at the gym…they ONLY use their stripper pole to work out!!!
So this got me thinking that I need to get myself a stripper pole for 3 reasons…
1 – Stripper Poles Take up ZERO Room!
My condo isn’t that large, so any type of gym equipment like an exercise back or treadmill would take up too much room…but a stripper pole literally takes up no room at all!
2 – Stripper Poles Are Excellent Work-Out Devices!
Stripper poles may look like an EXTREMELY simple device, but they actually work out your entire body from head to toe…literally!
3 – Stripper Pole Workouts Are Fun!
I’ve actually tested out my friend’s stripper pole, and it’s a super fun way of getting in shape!
Reasons Why Pole Fitness Works…
Okay, so not only will a pole fitness regiment make you healthier, it’ll also improve your sex life, and I’m a HUGE fan of looking healthy and having amazing sex!
1 – Pole Fitness Burns Calories like Super Quick!
I seriously could stand to lose 10 to 17 pounds at the moment, and pole fitness will help me strip down that unwanted weight because it’s possible to burn 500 calories in just one 30 minute session…perhaps more if I train intensely.
2 – If I Can Do It then ANYONE Can!
Seriously, anyone that wants to try out pole fitness will see how easy it actually is during their first 30 minute workout session…it’s so darn EASY!
3 – Pole Fitness Boosts Self-Confidence!
Once you get the pole fitness basics down and strengthen your muscles a bit, you’ll quickly begin to develop some serious skills and a body that makes heads turn. Once you see all of the attention that your new “pole-fitness” body is attracting from both men and women your self-esteem and confidence will grow!
4 – Pole Fitness Tightens & Tones your Muscles..Which help with Orgasms!
Anyone that’s spent much time exercising on a pole knows it works wonders for your physique. Not only do you lose unwanted body fat, but you build and tone your muscles as well. Tighter, healthier muscles don’t just look better, but function better overall.
In addition to finding it easier to do your yard work or bringing in the groceries, you’ll definitely find sex gets better. Your pubococcygeus (PC) muscle benefits from your pole fitness exercise regiment just as surely as your other muscles do. Strong, high functioning PC muscles go hand in hand with stronger, better orgasms for women!
5 – It Stimulates your Nervous System & Improves your Sex Life!
Yes, a pole fitness regiment will tighten and tone your body’s muscles, but it also stimulates and improves the response of your sympathetic nervous system (SNS), and better SNS function is directly related to quicker, more intense sexual arousal.
In other words, not only should you definitely exercise on a pole regularly if you’re serious about having the best possible looking body, but your sex life will also improve as well!
6 – Pole Dancing Improves Circulation!
A pole fitness exercise regiment is famous for the way it really gets your blood pumping. It doesn’t just improve your overall cardiovascular health either. It promotes the efficient flow of blood throughout your entire body. This includes to your crotch, genitals, and sex organs. What’s more, this is the case for men and women alike.
7 – Pole Fitness Encourages Hormones to Level Out!
When you’re carrying around an extra 10 to 17 pounds like me, you can’t help but feel sluggish from time to time. It’s not just about dealing with lower energy levels and less stamina either. The more excess fat you’re carrying on your body, the more estrogen your body produces (whether you’re male or female). High estrogen levels can result in decreased libido and lower levels of arousal in both sexes.
Exercising on a pole will help regulate your hormones and keep your estrogen levels in check. According to research conducted by the National Cancer Institute, getting around 300 minutes of exercise every week (about 30-45 minutes a day) keeps estrogen levels where they ought to be. Just one more way reason why I’m starting a pole fitness regiment this week!
8 – Pole Fitness Makes you more Attractive on a Basic Chemical Level!
Women emit sex pheromones that attract sex partners at all times. However, these pheromones and their effects become a lot more intense when we sweat. Yes, you heard that right! Getting your “sweat on” with a pole fitness regiment actually makes you more sexually attractive on a basic chemical level.
9 – You’ll be in a Better Mood More of the Time!
In case you haven’t noticed, bad or low moods and sexual arousal rarely tend to go hand in hand. In fact, one of the best known and most dreaded depression symptoms is a lowered ability to experience pleasure of any kind, the sexual variety included. Depressed people have a harder time wanting or seeking out sex in the first place as well.
As touched on above, exercising on a pole is just as great for your mental state as it is your physical one. It can make a massive difference when it comes to alleviating depression symptoms and boosting your overall mood. In some cases, pole fitness has even been known to help people overcome depression altogether over time…I mean, if a pole can make you happier and improve your sex life at the same time, then a pole fitness regiment in my opinion is a no brainer!
10 – Pole Fitness will Increase your Stamina!
Everyone that starts a pole fitness regiment can appreciate the benefits that increased stamina and endurance bring to the table. Stick with it long enough and you’ll be able to say good-bye to getting winded just from bringing groceries from the car or climbing up a few flights of stairs! You’ll also start noticing that it’s now possible to have the kind of sex you’d probably rather be having.
Instead of having to settle for quickies because that’s all you can handle physically, you’ll eventually find those marathon sessions you could only fantasize about before are now totally doable. When combined with increased strength and flexibility, stamina makes it easier to experiment in the bedroom as well.
11 – A Pole Fitness Workout Doesn’t Feel at ALL like a Workout!
I for one HATE exercising, but a pole fitness workout doesn’t at all feel like a workout at all because it’s so fun and kind of technical at the same time..it really is unlike any type of exercise I have ever attempted, and it’s already my FAVORITE by far!
12 – You’ll Sleep Better after Hitting the Pole!
Regular pole fitness workouts that tax the body, combined with the stretching you do as part of your pole dancing training, will ensure that you get a good night’s sleep every time you place your head on your pillow…and getting a good night’s rest is just as important as getting in a great workout, and a pole fitness workout regiment will give you both!
Jenny, Where Can I Get a Pole?
As I mentioned above, after doing some research online I came across a company by the name of X-Pole that will not only sell you a pole, but will also teach you how to use it correctly through their online pole fitness courses!
X-Pole’s online pole fitness classes are AMAZING because they teach you how to correctly use their poles so that you aren’t wasting any of your precious workout time trying to figure out the best ways to exercise on a stripper pole!
X-Pole is the world’s leading suppler of pole and aerial fitness equipment. At X-POLE, it’s their goal to introduce more people to the amazing world of pole and aerial fitness. These are amongst the most empowering exercises one can engage in. They’re also great exercises for building and maintaining your core strength.
A fun alternative to a normal exercise regimen, more women are turning to the exciting world of pole and aerial fitness. If you want to learn more about any of their products, please feel free to contact them here. They are more than mere suppliers of pole and aerial fitness equipment—consider them a resource as you embark on this new chapter in your life. Try incorporating a fitness pole into your workout routine today!
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You may think that a girl like me must have been playing with sex toys ever since I started masturbating, but that’s actually far from the yruth. I actually never really used sex toys until the Covid-19 pandemic started over 2 years when it was almost impossible to call up a guy to come over and give me some good wiener.
So way back in 2020 I began experimenting with sex toys, mostly luxury vibrators, more than ever before in my lifetime to help get me off since I couldn’t meet up with real men to have sex with, and I have to admit that orgasms from sex toys are way better than from an actual penis during sex….and thanks to Edonista, an online sexual wellness boutique, I may NEVER need to meet up with men again to achieve AMAZING orgasms!
I feel kinda bad for guys because they don’t stand a chance against a sex toy when it comes to making a girl cum; sex toys totally have an unfair advantage because they’re man-made and specifically designed to get a woman off.
For instance, Rabbit Vibrators and Wand Massagers, are examples of sex toys that are either extremely powerful, or gentle, or intense, depending on how you want to get yourself off…men only have one speed most of the time, and they usually can’t get women off because they ejaculate faster than a woman can achieve climax..but sex toys have batteries, or are rechargeable, and they don’t quit until a woman achieves an orgasm..or multiple orgasms in cases such as mine.
I’m not writing this to hurt anyone’s feelings, or harm the egos of all of you men out there, but I urge all of you women reading this to go and get yourself a new sex toy from Edonista’s selection of luxury vibrators & stimulators TODAY so you can have amazing orgasms ALL of the time! Trust me, Edonista’s luxury vibrators for women are guaranteed to make you squirt!
Other Benefits Provided By Edonista’s Sex Toys for Women…
Sex Toys Help Reduce Stress
With everything that has gone on over the past 26 months due to the uncertainty of the COVID-19 quarantine, both stress and anxiety have been building up, and sex toys can give you a safe, private and quick way to let off some of your built up stress so you’re ready to face the challenges of life once more. And even though the COVID-19 pandemic is coming to an end, right now is the time when we need sex toys more than ever.
Sex Toys Let You Discover What Turns You on
It’s important to really know what turns you on. With such a variety of sex toys on the market you can try something different every night of the week! Vibrators and dildos are most women’s go to solo toys, but have you tried them at the same time? If not you should! Strokers are a popular male toy, but have you tried one with a butt plug? Gay and straight men like them just the same. Experimenting with sex toys alone makes you more aware of your body and will help you tell your lover what they should do to you in the bedroom!
Sex Toys Help Cure Insomnia
Insomnia and sleep problems are the actual worst. Using a sex toy to masturbate is a great way to get your mind and body ready for sleep whether you’re anxious, have a thrown off sleep pattern, or your mind won’t shut off. Having an orgasm before you go to bed causes the body to get exhausted due to the release dopamines and oxytocin.
Sex Toys Enhance Your Overall Mood
Due to the release of endorphins when orgasming, masturbating with sex toys makes you happy. You don’t have to reach a full blown orgasm to relieve a little tension while masturbating with a sex toy, but just simply teasing the genitals will do the trick to turn any frown upside down!
Sex Toys Help Couples Set The Mood
Sex toys for couples are a great way to get foreplay going in the bedroom for couples! The longer couples are together the less foreplay they tend to have, but sex toys allow couples to spend more time pleasuring each other before having sex.
Edonista Offers the Best Selection of Sex Toys for Women!
All women deserve to enjoy amazing orgasms, and no one understands this more than the people over at Edonista!
If you have NEVER experienced a mind blowing orgasm with the help of a female sexual wellness toy then please visit Edonista ASAP.
Edonistabelieves that the world would be a better place if everyone had more orgasms. They believe that every female should own at least a couple of sex toys.
With Edonista as your friend, you’ll join thousands of happy women from around the world, and enjoy the most intense orgasms of your life because the ABSOLUTE best sex toys to help women achieve orgasms are sold online at Edonista!
Edonista understands that women’s pleasure devices can be both luxurious and affordable at the same time, and thet experiencing regular orgasms will improve cardiovascular health, reduce pain, and boost your immune system. Sexual pleasure will also flood your system with oxytocin (love hormone) and reduce cortisol (stress hormone) leaving you more relaxed and less anxious.
Edonista is on the frontlines of this revolution, carving out the reputation of a sex-positive brand that educates, entertains and empowers people to discover themselves through storytelling and information.
Edonista’s collection of luxurious, female-focused vibrators and clitoral stimulators will help you get in touch with your physical needs and take your orgasms to the next level. When you prioritize self-love, you bring your busy mind back to your body, and gently reverse any disconnect from trauma or stress.
Once you appreciate and feel affection for yourself, you are primed to bond with your partner. Together you can create a nurturing environment built on conscious choice, mindfulness and respect.
Edonista Wants To Help Men & Couples Achieve Pleasure As Well
They want to celebrate sexual freedom, equality and love. ALL of their sexual wellness products come from the most trusted brands in the sex toy industry, with years of experience.
It’s Edonista’s goal to present you with anything, and everything, that turns you on. Take a look around their boutique’s wide selection of sex toys, and make sure you don’t miss anything because you never know what new kink you may find!
Jenny’s Favorite Edonista Female Sexual Wellness Devices
You can’t go wrong with any sexual wellness device for women that you order from Edonista, but I’d still LOVE to share with you what my TOP 3 favorite orgasm devices from Edonista’s selection are…
Ada Rechargeable Wand Massager
Love the wand but hate it taking up so much space? Don’t worry because Edonista has you covered!
The classic cordless wand is now travel size. With multiple vibration patterns to choose from, and adjustable intensity, Ada is your perfect ally for a self-love session or to enjoy with a partner. Roommate friendly thanks to its mega silent motor. Coated with ultra-smooth silicone and fully waterproof you can take it with you to the shower or tub worry-free.
Engineered for pleasure. Colt’s ribbed body offers max stimulation only to be topped off by its curved tip reaching the right spot every time. Packed with multiple whisper silent vibration patterns to choose from, it’s the perfect partner for solo playing or to use with a partner. Its high-quality silicone feels smooth and velvety to the touch and provides the perfect glide when adding some water-based lube.
Built to be fully waterproof and with a convenient handle and buttons placed right on it, Colt is meant to share the bathtub with you for the ultimate self-care session.
Say hello to this little friend! Whether in company or playing solo Nina is the perfect addition to the occasion. Tiny, silent, and designed for portability it is the best travel vibrator. Its smooth surface feels soft and velvety on the skin and its size and shape allow it to travel easily over and around all erogenous zones.
The COVID-19 quarantine is finally over for most parts of the world, and all of you couples out there need to snap out of your daily routines of just binge watching TV shows on Netflix and HULU, and start spicing up your sex lives this upcoming holiday season with some BDSM sexperiments with the help of the online Adult’s Only sexual wellness boutique Edonista!
Freaky BDSM Sexperiment Time
Today’s freaky sexperiment is for all of you couples out there that have always thought about BDSM but just haven’t played out any BDSM fantasies yet.
First off, about 47 percent of women and 60 percent of men have fantasized about dominating someone sexually, and more than 60 percent of women and about 30 percent of men get aroused by the idea of being dominated..and I didn’t just make these BDSM facts up…I heard them on a podcast thank you very much…but just to double check these statistics I did an internet search and found similar numbers, so guess what people, most of us have a little BDSM freak living inside of us that wants to come out and play.
I understand that coming right out and telling your partner about the little BDSM freak living inside of you may be worrisome to many of you, so here’s are some ideas you may want to try out..
Idea #1 – Watch the movie Fifty Shades of Grey with your partner.
Honestly, I’m a super freaky slut, so this movie did nothing for me, but watching it with your lover may help you get a read on how they feel about BDSM relationships…just make sure you pay attention to how they respond to the movie’s sex scenes.
While watching the movie you should make comments like “we should try that”.
Now if you’re a man trying to start a BDSM conversation with a woman try saying something like “this movie kinda sucks, but I’m not gonna lie, I’m growing a pretty aggressive boner right now just thinking about doing those things to you.”
Women can be more aggressive with their comments because dudes will pretty much do anything in the bedroom, so if you’re a woman that wants to discuss BDSM with your man just say “Tonight I want you to choke me, bite me, pull my hair, and dominate me like the little slut that I am until I’m of no more use to you.”
Idea #2 – Ask your partner a non aggressive BDSM question.
Ask your partner what they think about being spanked with an impact play device; this is a super simple topic that’ll let you see how your partner reacts to something as basic and vanilla as “spanking”.
Stay away from more aggressive questions like “hey babe, what are your thoughts about having your wrists handcuffed to your ankles while I tell you to blow me?”
Listen, you and your partner are going to be stuck at home together for the next few weeks, so this is the perfect time to discuss BDSM, and I really hope both of my above ideas will allow the two of you to start a BDSM conversation without any judgment.
BDSM Sexperiment #1: Agree on “safe word”
You and your partner will need a “safe word” so you both know when one of you has had enough..and for what it’s worth, it’ll be fun discussing what safe word the two of you should use.
BDSM Sexperiment #2: Spanking
Bend your partner over and start spanking, but spank hard, and take a few moments between each spanking.
BDSM Sexperiment #3: Candle Wax & Handcuffs
Handcuff your partner to some bedposts and start dripping hot candle wax on them. See how long you both can go with this BDSM sexperiment.
Freaky BDSM Bondage & Fetish Toys
If you and your partner found enjoyment in these BDSM sexperiments then the two of you are ready to start getting more aggressive with your BDSM role playing fantasies, and this means that you’ll need BDSM toys, gear and accessories like ball gags, floggers, collars, blindfolds, and adjustable leather handcuffs just to name a few.
Now if you’re a man that really wants his lady to get on board with BDSM then I highly urge you to only use high quality BDSM gear and accessories, trust me, high quality BDSM looks super sexy and your chick will be more down to let you handcuff her to the bed if the handcuffs are made from sexy high quality adjustable leather.
I suggest that you and your partner get online together and visit the online sex boutique Edonista ASAP. Trust me, after your lady sees how sexy BDSM can be, she’ll be very into the idea of letting you dominate her on a more consistent basis.
Edonista believes that there is no shame in being a luxurious slut!
Everyone deserves to have amazing orgasms, and sex toys make amazing orgasms possible.
Seriously, no matter what the naughty item is that you’re desiring, Edonista is certain to have it ready and available for you 24 hours per day!
Edonista is a high-end ADULTS ONLY sexual wellness boutique that offers a wide selection of the top & most luxurious sex toy brands in the world today!
I highly recommend everyone reading this to please visit Edonista today and get yourself, or someone you want to help “get off”, a kinky sex toy that’ll provide orgasms to make you feel nothing but pure bliss!
It’s Edonista’s goal to present you with anything, and everything, that turns you on. Take a look around their boutique’s wide selection of sex toys, and make sure you don’t miss anything because you never know what new kink you may find!
Jenny’s TOP Edonista Bondage & BDSM Goodies
I understand that deciding on which BDSM goodies to purchase may be difficult if you are new to the world of kinky bondage, so I have listed 3 of my favorite BDSM toys from Edonista’s selection that I believe everyone should purchase today so they can start role playing with them as soon as possible!
Venice – 14 piece Bondage Set
Bring your fantasies to life. Start slowly by intruding some sensory deprivation play with the blindfold and gag ball. Now you (or your partner) can’t talk or see, all there is left to do is feel. Take it up a notch by adding hand and ankle cuffs to increase the dom/sub feeling. The chain and hooks offer multiple restraint options for you to choose from: hands together, ankles together, hands and ankles, or even tying your hands or ankles to bed or door restraints (not included). Ready for the real deal? Whip out the spanking paddle and the collar with leash. Whether your lover (or you) has been naughty or nice, they are about to find out. Once done with your magic session, store back into its discreet PU leather case till next time.
Whether you are looking to train your derriere skills or simply to step up your game, you have come to the right place. Shaped for easy insertion, handling and removal, each piece of this set increases progressively in size for you to pick the one that suits you best. Made from high-quality silicone these pieces are smooth to the touch and designed to seamlessly glide just by adding some water-based lube. As a bonus, all four pieces come with suction cup bases so you can attach them to any non-porous surface!
Let your imagination fly. Take this beautiful PU leather case with you and surprise your lover by unleashing a whole new level of passion. Use the ball gag and blindfold on yourself or your partner for some sensory deprivation play. When kept in the dark, our other senses heighten, making every touch feel extremely hot and sexy. Turn it up even more by adding some restraint play, using the hand and ankle cuffs. The chain and hooks offer multiple restraint options for you to choose from: hands together, ankles together, hands and ankles, or even tying your hands or ankles to bed or door restraints (not included). Things got really heated up and you both feel like having a taste of BDSM? Try using the collar and leash and the spanking paddle for some dom/sub action.