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How to Seduce Another Couple Into Having Sex

How to Seduce Another Couple Into Having Sex

Since I’m a swinger myself I receive almost 300 emails per week from readers asking a wide range of “swinger” oriented questions, but the number one question I get is this:

“Jenny, my significant other and I want to have sex with another couple that we know but we aren’t sure how to tell them.”

Well this can be a very tricky situation if not handled correctly. Here is some advice on how to approach the situation.


Tip #1 – Are You Ready To Lose Their Friendship

Before letting another couple know that you want to have sex with them you need to decide how important their friendship is to you and your significant other, because you might lose their friendship forever once they find out that you’re into the swinging lifestyle.

Once another couple finds out that you and your significant other are swingers there’s no going back because they’ll ONLY see you as swingers if they aren’t into it; if you DO NOT want to lose their friendship then you may never want to tell them that you’re swingers.

If they’re “into” it then they’ll not just see you as swingers because they understand the lifestyle.

If you’re “okay” with risking the friendship then proceed to tip #2!


Tip #2 – Invite Them Over For Dinner and Drinks

Invite the couple over that you want to have sex with over for dinner and drinks. Don’t be overly flirtatious, just be friendly and have playful conversations about sex while you’re eating dinner and enjoying a few glasses of wine together.

Also, make sure that you and your significant other dress as sexy as possible for the dinner so that the other couple finds the two of you attractive.


Tip #3 – Observe The Other Couples Interest in Sex

During dinner you’ll be able to tell how open your friends are about sex; if they seem into it then you can continue advancing the conversation toward your end-goal, but if they seem turned off then shut it down right away or you may lose them as friends forever.


Tip #4 – Let the “Cat Out of the Bag” With A Game


Now that everyone is starting to feel the effects of the wine I suggest playing a “swinger” oriented game; games make the best icebreakers because you’re not the ones pushing the limits, but the game itself can be blamed for doing that!

At the last swinger’s party I went to the hosts brought out a game called Couple Game 2019, and I suggest that you get this game as well to play with other couples that you want to have sex with.


About Couple Game 2019


Couple Game 2019 is an erotic board game for 2 to 8 open-minded couples. The double sided game board offers 2 levels, softcore and hardcore, and is designed for beginners all the way to experienced swingers. The 30 “action” fields per side contain special and erotic tasks that are visually displayed. Each position on the board and the associated action for men or women is also explained in the game description. For each action you have only a limited time available. The game offers a lot of erotic fun for all couples.


Perfect For Beginners & New Couples

One side of the board is specially designed for new players. Play this version with new friends or couples if you’re not sure how “far” you want to go!

In the “softcore” version the highest action is oral sex and no task has actual sexual intercourse. There are mainly erotic tasks such as taking off clothes or “fondling” other people. The players can switch to the hardcore version at any time if all players agree. You can find some examples of the softcore tasks below.

I suggest you start with this version of the game the first time you play it with a new couple because they’ll be more open to give it a shot…then maybe joke around about they “Hardcore” version of the game to see what they think. If you get the feeling that they may want to give the “hardcore” version then I say go for it!

The “hardcore” version gets right to the point. Although designed for experienced couples and swingers, there is probably at least one task for which you would rather use a diamond, so that you don’t have to complete the task. For all tasks there is a time limit, otherwise most of the guys would not be able to complete the first round!




1 – Put a hand in a player’s pants and see if he or she is already horny!

2 – Orders all male players to take off a piece of clothing.

3 – Use the “Sexposition” dice and simulate the position with the player to your right..

4 – The player who throws the highest number using the dice touches your pussy with his dick. (but no penetration allowed).

5 – Stand in front of any player facing away from them and with your legs apart – you will be fondled from behind.

6 – Massage and caress the butt of a desired player with oil.

7 – Striptease – Take off your clothes or use a diamond as a joker to keep 1 piece of clothing !!!

Maybe start out by just doing these tasks to your own significant other in front of the other couple before suggesting that you switch up partners.




1 – Your hands are tied behind you; then all male players lick you all over your body at the same time.

2 – The player to the left inserts his dick in you, but he is not allowed to move until the hourglass expires.

3 – Let yourself be licked by 2 players of your choice. Each of the 2 players will receive a diamond.

4 – The female player who throws the highest number on the dice has her breasts oiled; then you rub your dick in between.

5 – You are fucked by all men at the same time (double or more) but you decide what is allowed.

6 – Blindfold!!! – All players penetrate you one after another – if you guess who is, you will receive a diamond.




If you really want to inform another couple that you and your significant other want to have sex with them then be prepared to lose their friendship if they aren’t interested in your swinging lifestyle.

But if they do seem interested then I suggest you play the softcore version of Couple Game 2019 with them as a way of getting things started and to see how far they’re willing to go with you and your significant other!

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Playing Sex Games Always Leads To Sex

If you’ve been in a relationship for a while, you’d know that it’s not easy keeping that rush of sexual passion alive every single night. Sometimes, no matter how hard as both of you try, sex can start to feel pretty repetitive. When you first got together you couldn’t keep your hands off of each other because everything was new, and when things are new it’s easy to get horny. and stay horny, for any reason at all. But as time goes on, sex can feel repetitive and chore-like, and we all know that doing chores like the dishes will only get your hands wet and nothing else.

It’s no one’s fault really. But you can’t keep doing the same things over and over if you want your sex life as exciting as it was when you first got together. This is why I suggest playing sex games.

I find that sex games, besides being fun, can really put a spark back into a dull relationship. They take all of the embarrassment out of exploring a fetish, asking to try new positions, asking for more oral, etc and can break couples out of a rut.

They’re also amazing at breaking the ice on a date or in a group setting. Let’s face it…if you start playing ANY sex games you are GOING to end of having sex.


Here are 6 sex games for couples that I found at KissyGames.Com that will help you get your sex lives back in the right direction..and by “in the right direction” I mean his penis in one, or all three, of your holes.



I don’t know about you but I am a very competitive girl! Dare me to do something but be prepared for me to do it! Maybe that’s why I love this naughty little deck of cards so much!

Intimate Dares is a risque card game that not only challenges your card skills, but tests your willingness to get down and dirty with lusty tasks and uninhibited dares!

The game opens the door to hours of naughty, sexy fun with your friends and/or lovers For 2 or more players Includes: 1 Intimate Dares Playing Deck, 1 Deck of Dare cards, rule sheet and full instructions.

Take it to the next level, by playing with three or more players and you’ll enjoy this ultimate ‘Truth or Dare’ game that will bring out a ton of sexy fun throughout the whole evening!

Key Benefits:

1)The Intimate Dares Adult Erotic Cad Game by California Exotics gets everyone in the mood and can be played by 2 or more players for an interesting game night

2)Perfect as party favor gift to give out at bachelorette or engagement parties.

3)Suitable for couples (or groups) who dare to act out their most erotic fantasies.

Click here to learn more about the INTIMATE DARES CARD GAME!



The ultimate sexual contact game. Place the game board on a flat surface and position the Touchdown cards face-down next to the board. Each player chooses a game token to represent them on their movements across the field and those tokens are then placed on the pink and blue kick off squares. Players take a single roll of the die to decide who roll first. The higher roll wins the play and that player may roll again for their turn to determine how many squares to move forward. Players make their way across the football field performing foreplay activities as instructed in the game squares and collecting Touchdown cards as they go. The first player to reach the End Zone wins the game allowing them to receive or perform at their own discretion the sexual activities listed on their collected Touchdown cards.

Key Benefits:

1)Foreplay Football is an adult board game for couples with a fun and playful football theme

2)Simple dice rolls advance you across a football field full of pleasure activities

3)Collect β€œTouch Down” cards while playing that include additional activities and suggestions

Click here to learn more about the FOREPLAY FOOTBALL BOARD GAME!



Sex Mark’s The Spot is the ultimate pleasure map!

Create a very hot and steamy date night in with the Creative Conceptions Sex Marks The Spot Game. It is literally the ultimate pleasure map! All roads in this thrilling board game lead to romance and raunchiness. The aim of this game is to navigate across a grid that is filled with erotic surprises and very sexy suggestions, while always trying to be ahead of your partner. You’ll pick up Xs and Os in your quest to unlock your favorite fantasy. Each square will reveal a little more as you both explore each other like never before. The grand prize is an orgasmic finale in a game where pleasure is the ultimate treasure

Click here to learn more about SEX MARK’S THE SPOT!



Want to have a sexy night you’ll never forget? With “Full Disclosure” you’ll not only disclose your naughty little secrets, you’ll also learn all about your lover’s kinks, desires and fantasies– all while getting stripped down in the buff. Our naughty spin on the classic truth or dare game features 120 enticing truth and dare activities and a whole lot of naughty extras. Do you dare to play? You won’t regret it!

Click here to learn more about FULL DISCLOSURE!



Write Your Own Erotic Adventure! 100 Sexy Scenarios can make for thousands of new ways to experience your partner. All you need is a little imagination and some time to enjoy. The great thing about this game is that you can control where and how, with what and for how long.

Click here to learn more about SEXPLICIT!



Let’s face it…we all get stuck in dull routines. If fooling around has become limited to the bedroom you need to mix it up! Remember when you would get caught up in the moment and take advantage of a kitchen counter or the laundry room? Bring back that passion and spontaneity with Sex Around the House!

How can a simple board game change your life? Well… with Sex Around the House you can avoid the awkwardness of suggesting something new – let the game decide when and where your next rendezvous will occur. Break free of your bedroom and open up the entire house. You’ll never look at a room the same way! Just follow the footsteps into each and every room to reveal the sexual surprise that awaits.

Who knew you could have so much fun in the dining room?!

Click here to learn more about SEX AROUND THE HOUSE!


Once you start playing sex games, you’ll begin feeling extremely horny, and before you know it, you’ll start having amazing, and fun, sex together once again! And when you’re trying to find the perfect sex game, visit KissyGames.Com because they will have the exact sex game that you need to get that spark back in your sex life!